how I cope. I thought I’d share my experience because it might give hope to others. 💙☀️🤗
You are amazing and you are so very strong. 💜 Be angry, be sad it is all part of the process. 👍 Emotions are wonderful and need to be expressed. (in positive ways hopefully) You’ll find though that anger takes far more energy then sadness. The truth of you choosing to exist in this world let alone with conditions on your life is astonishing. 🤗 I haven’t always been so positive. In fact I used to be very negative and self deprecating. 👹 It was going to kill me through accidental overdose and self loathing. You asked how I cope... I can’t choose something’s in this life like having Fibro or pains. I can choose how I react to the things this world throws at us. 💩 I got to my darkness point and saw 2 roads ahead; dying through overdose in darkness or drastically changing the negative patterns I had developed. I didn’t want to die, I wanted to find a way to live. ☀️ What I was doing was not working. I had to grow and put effort into being the best me I could be. I had already been the worst to myself. The hardest is reconditioning the mental thoughts to become positive ones. It has become daily practice with myself and even my spouse to change the tone and pattern of our speech and thoughts from negative to positive. 🌞 Yes it is work, life is just that. You’ll find that after awhile it becomes easier to do. It takes far less energy to be positive and light then to be in darkness and negativity. Way more fun too. 😄
We all have our own unique journeys; we can help one another become the best versions of ourselves. Be good to you, we are beautiful. Keep strong, my friend. 💜☀️🤗
Dear Rochelle Dal Collo's Body
We understand we do not feel well today... and most days for that matter. 😊 We know we feel like we went on an all night bender and got hit by a train. We know we want to give up and die sometimes then to continue on everyday/all day being in constant agony. We realize we suffer from disabilities and conditions; we can not let that stop us! We humbly ask you to please continue to move forward with us. Please push on, past the pain, through the stress and the negativities of life. For we have come so far together and have gained so much. We are so grateful to you for what you have done and for what we have achieved over the years. From where we were, to where we are, to where we will be; it can be amazing if we do it together! We know we get lost sometimes and it gets very dark sometimes; please do not lose hope or light for we are always with you. We are worth the struggle and fight to continue on!
We are special, unique and loved by light! ☀️ We feel what others may not. We have the ability to spread sympathy, empathy, compassion, love and light to those who suffer and to those who do not. We promise to help you by being positive and guiding us through our journeys as best as we can. At times we may send you mixed signals and confuse you. 😜 For this we are truly sorry; remember we do not require perfection from us. Somethings in life will be out of our control, together we can overcome anything! 😀 We promise to work hard everyday to cheer us on, keep us positive and living in the light. ☀️ We promise to let us feel emotions and cry when it gets difficult and overwhelming. We will be mindful of our moments and help us rise above the obstacles that we will face. We also promise to let you rest in peace with no judgements when you are required to do so.
We understand you alone bare the physical charge of this world and that you are doing the best you can. We thank you for your strength and endurance. We love you very much and only want good things for us! Happy New Year, love, light and laughter to all! ☀️💙
Yours truly, sincerely and love
Rochelle Dal Collo's Mind and Soul